All posts by “Simply Mella

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Good Life

The kids have friends over this morning. Their day started with two smiling faces bouncing through the door and a gathering of girls at the counter, whisking waffle batter. I made my bed and went down to the basement to load laundry from our weekend… Read More

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The Morning After

It’s the morning after Mother’s Day, and I am still so relaxed that I haven’t left my bed. I’ve edited a ton, but I haven’t dealt with the mess in my kitchen, or the laundry on my couch. I have a load that was left… Read More

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The Motherhood I Want

There was a day last week when I flipped out on my children in a way that can only be described as a toddler-in-Target like tantrum. It was the parental equivalent of kicking and screaming and making large, sweeping, unreasonable, demands to an audience that had… Read More

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Satisfied (I Will Never Be)

I don’t compare myself to others, I recently told a friend, honestly. I love community over competition. I like that we’re all different, but can all be great… but I’m brutal with myself. I have expectations, for myself, for my children, for the way our house should… Read More

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Strong

Strong: adjective 1) having the power to move heavy weights or perform other difficult tasks 2) able to withstand great force or pressure I watched Wild last night. It’s the sort of wanderlust, go off somewhere by yourself for months on end and have a… Read More

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Alone

Do you ever want to just pack up and start over, somewhere far, far away? A cabin the woods, a hut in another country, the side of a mountain, somewhere, anywhere, just…away from here? I asked Vinnie this on the drive home from the store,… Read More

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Dating and Marriage

It was early afternoon on a Friday, our only day “off” during the busyness of our schedules of school co-ops, teaching, shooting and Vinnie working 12-hour overnight shifts at the homeless shelter. I was on the treadmill, trying to sweat my way out of this… Read More